What's it like being fit in your 30s? Does even matter at that point? Seems like it is already over.
Reading this sub made me depressed
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty
What's it like being fit in your 30s? Does even matter at that point? Seems like it is already over. Reading this sub made me depressed
That frauding cunt is not 33. Those crows feet, fashion sense and writing style puts him at at least 38
Still more dateable than that gay to the left
The 20 something's that see a fit 30 something that is decently established and doesn't sperg out in normal situations actually want to be with them. Pulling isn't hard when you're fit, confident without being arrogant, hygienic, and even halfway attractive.
Youngling aspies btfo by fit old fags once again.
I'm in my mid 30's, but have a college teaching position, so my dating pool mostly consists of former and current students. If you are somewhat fit, people often bring it up, I also had guys ask me how long I have been lifting after lectures.
>testosterone is tanking
>haven't had motivation for years
>steeped in cynicism and bitterness for years
>wardrobe is completely comprised of zero effort dad clothes
>figure is maintained with zero thought
>nonchalantly mosey through life just waiting for the next chance to fixate on whatever your hobby is
>"I'd like to date, anyone really, it's fine if it happens or it doesn't"
I call it smiling pessimism
Fuck I'm already like this at age 20
I'm 25f and started dating a guy who is 37. Best decision I made. The main thing is that there is a huge maturity difference. He treats me so well, sex is the best I've had, he makes me feel like I'm hot af since I look better than most women his age (I do lift too on top of being younger). He does lift and looks amazing for his age. So there is hope for you 30 yr old anons, just take care of yourself and try not to be too autistic
Do you know the rules, roastie?
TITS OR GTFO
Tits are just for my man now
Agreed. Around 10 year gap is ideal at this age range
>25f
I guess the 'f' stands for 'fag' and fair enough, gay men may have it easier, but I don't think that's what most anons here are talking about
> Reading this sub
Well yeah obviously if you limit your pool to people bitching about their dating life on reddit, it’s going to look horrible. The healthy and well-adjusted people are on date night or putting their kids to bed.
By your thirties, you should have enough going on in life that fitness is a nice bonus but not your sole purpose.
I make the time and put in the effort to stay fit, just like I did with my studies and work ethic in my 20s. Your dating pool opens up, especially if you're stable and secure in various aspects of your life. Of course, this is assuming you're not socially retarded and a decent person.
Uhhh it’s just pretty good? I don’t know about the meme I’m scoring all the 22 year old stuff since I settled down last year of college but as far as everything else goes it’s great. People are unironically more impressed with a fit physically imposing guy in his 30s over one in his 20s. No idea about dating but honestly it sounds like a shitshow no matter what your age is these days
34 here. Energy levels and managing proper recovery are a bitch. I think my t-levels are dropping and it's time to hop on trt soon.
As far as dating goes, yeah I've been an incel for years. With the dating apps, it seems most of my options are late 20s/early 30s post-wall obese single moms. Most of the younger women, especially the sane ones, must filter out this age range because I don't even see them. I just wanna find a nice mid-20s qt to start a family with, but I'd rather continue to live a life of inceldom than try to be attracted to any of the obese cows that are the new "average American woman".
same age but not having any energy issues. exact same dating app experience though. shouldnt have fucked around so much in my teens and 20s. oh well
yeah 38 here, dating sucks on the apps at this age. but at least i didn't waste my youth, i was productive i was just such a workaholic that i forgot about women... until age 38... kek i'm fucked romantically (but not financially)
Just miss out of life so I can consume when I'm old and alone!
My energy issues may be that I eat like absolute shit, way too much sugar, while doing a 5 day lifting routine with a few hours of cardio every week.
One thing I should mention, I have setup dates with qts in the past but cancelled from my suHispanicions. For instance when I was around 30, I met a cute 19 year old on bumble but cancelled the date we setup because I convinced myself that she must be a chud. And similarly I cancelled a date with a cute Ukrainian girl because she didn't smile in any photos and I assumed that she had really fucked up teeth. But given my otherwise complete absence of success, I'm probably right in assuming that women who show any interest in me are fucked up in some significant way.
Apps set default 2 year age for under 25 and 5 for over 25.
Subreddits are always depressing because humanity is a polluted stream. Don't read those.
As for being fit: do it. Prevents injuries, keeps you attractive and physically capable. What else do you need.
Personally, I have no money and no job, but I'm 6'5 and a formidable speaker, so I get lots of attention. When I'm 50+ it'll start getting much harder, but for now it's amazing how easy it is to drop panties if you come across as a brooding poet. Of course, it works better on upper-class girls; low-education/intelligence/taste types are another ball game entirely (and many people on this board love specifically these latter wome, partly because they're just like them, partly because they've been taught bimbos are the best status symbol)
Just live your life, brother. All you have is your time.
Look like traniies. Must be german.
>Of course, it works better on upper-class girls
tell us more anon
Not that anon but it's fairly easy to see what's happening. Those girls don't care about having someone protect/provide/lead for them.
Partly they're independent and don't really care too much about money
Partly they have "tortured genius" as a valid love archetype (not too popular among the poor)
Partly they are refined enough to appreciate what you bring to the table (both through their taste and their education giving you a wider pool of things to draw from and delight them; to use a crude example if I have a story about selling Bill Basinski LSD, you won't find it interesting unless you know who Basinski is, e.g.)
I guess it depends on countries but I feel bad for women in their early 30s trying to date. In Switzerland it feels like women stay decent but dudes become skinnyfat porn addicts with no hobbies but video games and junk food.
I'm really close to that dude except 6'1 ottermode, travel a shit ton but very frugal, so I can get the minimalist wanna be girls and alternative chicks. Thing is they're not that cringe here, have decent bodies and educated. Just avoid the feminists and you're good.
But my gf's sister is 30, very cute, skinny, master in economics etc, but all the single dudes she can find are terrible. All the decent men I know are in long term relationships and tinder which is now how most people find a partner, is filled with unfit boring guys or try hards with no brain.
Porn and its consequences have been a disaster for the male gender.
Honestly, in Sweden most decent guys are taken by thirty but so are most decent women and those women who thought they could wait, suddenly realize what they missed out on. But contrary to you I don't think that the women that are alone are such catches but rather the dating market is roughly at equilibrium at 30, maybe a little in favour of men.
He thinks catch= skinny/fit with a good career and "hobbies".
Girls that think like this will get what's coming for them, the shelf
why would any decent man at any age date a 30yo hag who's all about "muh careeeeeeer"?
Where do you meet these upper class girls?
I'm overly educated and am poetic with words, seems like I've been searching in the wrong pool.
Just turned 30
>Finally able to save money
>Finally have a decent job
>Finally don't care about women or their stupid bullshit
>Finally able to eat whatever
>Finally able to workout whenever
>Finally able to sleep well
I'm near 40 and have 25% bf
I can go to a bar and fuck women in their 20s easy
You fags are just ugly and have a shit face
Post face.
>turning 30 in December
>Dawned on me some time this year I literally didn't talk to a single girl my entire 20s
>Last gf was when I was 18
>Don't even know how it happened
What the fuck man
>Turning 28
>I almost never talked to females in my entire 20s
>Last gf was when I was 18
>Don't even know how it happened, but I suspect it's a combination of wanting to fix my body first, being addicted to porn and having PTSD after an experience where a girl consented to fooling around and afterwards told my buddy I practically raped her
30-35 you can easily sign up for a class at your community college and have young women hitting on you. You're seen as mature, but not too old (yet).
>What's it like being fit in your 30s? Does even matter at that point?
It means you're keeping yourself healthy for your wife and family. You should be ten years married by then.
based, im at 9 years with second kid on the way. The hedonist lifestyle is catching up with these idiots. You love to see it
26, no kids, 200k usd job tho and only entry level
wife is 26, 180k usd with phd
smoked weed daily since I was 18, did coke weekly, drank four nights a week
what's catching up to me exactly?
You married a women with a PhD and you see no problem with this, it’s clear you are already severely brain damaged.
>having children
>calling other people idiots
Lmfao
Honestly subreddits are IST are good places to go if you want the absolute darkest outlook on shit.
Whatever you're wanting to do, just try it.
subreddits and* IST
This
I'm 33 and don't really have any problems
what you don't want to be is obese in your 30s and start fucking up your back, knees, feet, erectile dysfunction, cholesterol, heart disease, etc
Let me put it this way, i'm 35 and I get approached by girls younger than me so i'm doing just fine.
So, 34 year Olds? Lmao
Actually they are more like 20 or there about, some are older and some are younger than that but you can think what ever you want if that helps you feel better.
True. My friends encouraged me to date older and then this happened
. Now I keep encouraging other women in there 20s to date older too
32 year old here. Work at Amazon. Never had more female attention in my life. 19 year olds with boyfriends touching my arms, milfs, super young cuties doint double takes. It's not an age thing, it's a person thing.
I'm 26 and I don't see the issue with being in your 30s as a man...because you're a man. Women are the ones with ticking time bombs. No one cares if a middle aged, still decently ok woman dates a 30+ year old. Infact, it routinely happens.
Keep lying to yourself.
you're fucking retarded if you think that being in your 30's is the end of a mans dating life
Not that anon but even as a man having kids late increases their chances of being retarded.
the hardest thing is that women your age range and single are basically unwifeable. They have been through so many miles of cock, have kids from other dude, or are morbidly obese, some kind of mental illness.
and yes the solution is to go younger, but a lot of younger chicks will get a lot of negative pressure from their friends and family about dating an older guy (unless hes rich or famous of course) so thats a hurdle as well.
i mean if you're single too you're probably
mentally ill or a rapist so
Indeed.
>They have been through so many miles of cock, have kids from other dude, or are morbidly obese, some kind of mental illness.
Honestly the first of those things is pretty tolerable compared to the latter.
I'm 40 now but I found online dating easiest when I was around 33-34 and ripped. Dated a 26 year old gymbunny for a time back then. I still maintained my physique and have good skin but dating is awful at 40 since it's slightly too old to attract woman who want to start families so all that's left are degenerate career feminists who want to "travel".
I'm 32 and it feels great. These horror stories about becoming and being >30 years old are completely alien to me.
>Referring to reddit
Redditors in their 30's are absolute trash. They look like they're 40 and have back/knee problems. They barely looked good in their 20's but got by with the scraps.
You can get away with being a loser in your 20's, not in your 30's. Just make sure you're not a loser then.
Being fit and attractive in your 30s is easier than your 20s. Now stop being a Reddit gay.
>be turning 33
>at office party
>boss is flirting with me
>other prime office girl who is 23 says she can’t believe I’m 33 and that I’m a lot of fun
>know she wants to fuck
Stop being fat and ugly. Being in your 30s and fit is prime age for pussy. You have authority, confidence, money and experience.
Met my wife right before tinder came out. The roasties I know that are still single are hitting the wall so hard from weekend party lifestyle. Poetic in a way. My wife still looks early 20s
>feels good to have a best friend for a wife who doesn't look like a dumbstruck fire
it's over for most people, if you were fit/good looking in your teens/twenties, then you become rarity in your 30s.
42yo here, married, two small kids. I‘m trainig twice a week and a frequent reader here. Flirting as much as I can at the super rare occasions my super-jealous wifes lets me. Women seem to like me, no one is fleeing 🙂 but I never went further than flirting since I‘m married. Super curious to try tinder/bumble/… just to see what‘s goin…
Btw and in my age being fit is mainly for not getting back problems from sitting on office chairs all days… also, zero women at work (engineer) = occasions are rare…
I am 33 and i look younger the that gay in 20's. And right guy is atleast 40.
>36
>bald
>have a wife
>have two boys
>cutting right now to get abs back
>have home gym in garage
>have a stats ba
>work at a box/paper company doing data management
>the ladies at work always call me handsome
>back in college for mba to start own consulting firm
>no free time to sit and read or watch weird movies with wife
>cut IST time down to a minimum before wife and kids wake up on weekends
the problem is ur mindset gay its mind boggling how you can be such a pussy at 30 years old, ngmi
Depends on what your 30s are like, if you have been constantly improving in all aspects of your life and not getting ravaged by aging, your 30s will be way better. However this is probably the minority of men, most get comfy and lazy by mid 20s and fall into a routine into a steady decline, so their 30s are worse.
have a nice day redditor
55yo , gym every morn at 8 , then beach for 2-3hrs looking at boobs and ass in tiny bikinis then home, 420 and fuck wife..life is great
That‘s my goal for the future. I hope your wife is not fat…
based xoomer
stop posting plebbit you triple moron
nobody cares
WHY do so many people think being in your 30s = it's over
Just kys then on your 29th birthday you fucking retards you are ALL following the timeline of that of a woman, think about that.
turning 30 in sept and i really don't give a fuck, im at the best shape of my life im richer than ever, even got a new car a week ago. my 20's were a nightmare spended gridning. now i enjoy my labor. fuck off now
Wow, imagine not marrying in your early 20's. You people make me sick.
You will never pass
30s is a somewhat shitty decade. you probably get trapped in a marriage, get a kid, you're in a job with a boss that's borderline abusing you and you can't do shit about it because you're essentially still a kid and have the same dumb mindset as in your 20s. but you're 30+ and your hangovers start to get bad. also the kids think you're old and the older cool guys think you're still a kid.
40s gets way better as you don't give a fuck about anything other people say/think and you've got shitton of confidence and disposable income for toys (cars, bikes, young women). also suddenly whisky tastes good and you enjoy it for the taste and not just to get hammered.
Being fit in your 30s is great because you are in a very small pool also just being fat sucks. The issue is dating in your 30s. If you are single in your 30s I would just quit "dating" and start fucking for sport. People over 30 and not married tend to have deep personality flaws somewhere.
I fucked up a tendon in my thumb at 40 and it's been a rough 3 months. Finding time for cardio is gay as shit with young children. Don't fuck your shit up, healing sucks when you're an old gay.
If you're not married by 30, you really just have to realize that all the good catches have already been caught and this is both why you can't find anyone worth a shit to date and why you are single, yourself. You're not one of the good catches.
A bunch of chronically single guys are gonna respond to this about how men "peak" when they're 40. Hilarious cope.
It matters more than ever because in your 30's you're married with children and need to have your shit together. You don't want your son to grow up thinking it's OK to be weak.
The women I meet in my 30s are hotter than the ones I had in my 20s. Still date about 5 years younger than me. It's easy to feel confident in my 30s because I have a house and dates cost a pittance to me. Way different from my 20s when I'm sweating as I'm paying the bill. Since money isn't an issue I never come off as cheap even when I do cheap dates for fun like hiking. I also can afford the best food and have free time to keep my body in good physical condition so I look better.