>quit porn and masturbation
>use the horniness to get a girlfriend
Viable strategy or a meme?
>quit porn and masturbation. >use the horniness to get a girlfriend
>quit porn and masturbation
>use the horniness to get a girlfriend
Viable strategy or a meme?
meme you will get horny enou9gh to start acting then you will get rejected and relapse
why do you have to keep a brother down?
just telling how it is, I've done it like 6 times and every single time the same scenario, get on nofap, 3-4 weeks in unbearably horny, hit up on a chick, get hit with "i have a boyfriend", "not looking for anything romatnic, we can be friends", relapse, coom 10 times a day
>3-4 weeks in unbearably horny
if you're doing it right you will stop being horny because, unless you still have a habit of looking at arousing images/videos or thinking about it, no normal human gets increasingly more horny without stimulation
fix your mindset
No
This is the /r/nofap mentality
This is a good way to become like the guy from this video
The goal shouldn't be to never fap again
It should be to only fap occasionally so that it doesn't control you anymore, but enough so you don't implode
>so you don't implode
i haven't fapped in over 6 months
the arousal will weaken a couple of weeks into it (if done correctly), you will have one or two wet dreams in the first two months and afterwards the only time you will nut is when you want to
not fapping won't kill you (look at monks); not fapping while still thinking in terms of release and need will be very uncomfortable for you
>Not fapping won't kill you
Yeah but it can decrease the blood flow to your penis severely. If you don't use any bodypart, your body will stop sending it nutrients and blood, for there is no reason to.
I'm not saying you should fap, or do anything for that matter, but I am saying that killing your libido might have consequences that you're not comfortable with on the long run.
Healthy adult male get up to 5 erections during sleep which can last 30 min. Atrophy does not concern the penis because your body automatically makes sure of sexual function.
Bonus, if you are actually high t and completely stop looking at porn, fapping and even clothed girls on the internet then every 5+/10 will give you a boner by talking to them.
This works for a while, but by that standard, the guy from
videos should be absolutely gigachad. He is not.
Use it or lose it homie. Unless you get raging morning wood every morning still, I wouldn't count on those 5 erections a night anymore.
While masturbating too much will tell your subconcious you're a loser, so will not cooming at all. You're basically just telling your brain you're not getting laid at all.
The guy from the videos is a stoner, lives with his parents and looks like he doesn't work out at all.
Also, the original post was about getting a girlfriend. The horniness and ultimately frustration should lead you to interact with girls to the point you get laid here and there until one actually sticks around.
Again, the guy in the video talked about how he also never got laid in his 400 days. 400 days of self-improvement should be enough to at least get an fwb.
>The horniness and ultimately frustration should lead you to interact with girls
That doesn't help you if you aren't at the attractiveness floor to be visible as a viable sexual partner to them.
Post-nut clarity often brings shame and regret when that frustration leads you to fuck a woman that is fat (like the vast majority of Americans) or has other trashy aggravating factors.
>400 days of self-improvement should be enough to at least get an fwb.
Not jerking off isn't self-improvement, unless you're highly neurotic and have a guilt complex about cooming. If you consistently feel upset and regret after masturbating, it's probably in your best interests to stop. However, most people jerk off because the women around them are gross, attractive ones are too much effort, and the dating process isn't fun.
Why is nofap such a heated complicated discussion? Just don't fap and don't watch porn or look at hot insta girls. Feeling horny? Want to put your pp into vagina? Go and get laid or get a girlfriend. Not attractive to girls? Then work on becoming attractive. Not meeting any girls? Work on meeting girls.
Easy.
Because NoFappers are like Shinji in that they're scared of the judgement of their object of desire. They are the only ones keeping score about how rarely they touch their penis; nobody cares.
Working out, flirting with girls, new online dating profile - these expose the subject to judgment from his object of desire. Where he can be found wanting; where his work in the gym and so on can fail, no matter how hard he tried. That's how you end up with stoners who live with their parents with an unwarranted sense of superiority for not jerking off.
It's not even pathetic, it's contemptible.
Based jungian poster. This is the same phenomenon of the whole "reject girls,go to gym" thing that's so popular with zoomers now. Those poor kids don't know what they're doing.
Still, I support nofap as far the porn industry is demonic and its a real addiction that you need to cold turkey for a month or two in order to detox.
>. You're basically just telling your brain you're not getting laid at all.
This is unironically a good thing, your brain goes in panic mode and does anything to get you closer to getting laid & reproducing, like upregulating androgen receptors, downregulating estrogen receptors, reducing prolactin while boosting dopamine.
This is why I am stopping. However
is right if you can't control it.
Could get in a bad situation.
Anyways I am going to do noporn and see how it goes.
I mean, if your only goal with this is to get yourself extra horny to get laid/have better sex you shouldn't stop fapping for over 3 months in the first place (what's even the point? you will have gone through several new sperm cycles at that point and i don't think testosterone is going to increase enough to warrant the effort). I'm just saying that the only reason people see it as difficult is because they're attempting to neither abstain from all sexual thoughts and actions nor just have sex instead of fapping, but just to stop fapping to get themselves to attempt to have sex (which can take god knows how long depending socially retarded they are). And your penis/libido won't have any issues that wouldn't resolve themselves with some time.
The random boners and night erections (which are even more common while on semen retention) take care of that. However if you don't get them then you need to get your testosterone checked or get whatever blood flow issue you have fixed.
bro you are retarded
If you are a young healthy male it is a given that you will be unbearably horny at random points, it's just the biology of being a dude. If you are a young man and NOT getting horny off of nothing consistently then you either have low T or are mentally ill.
Only low T gays can do nofap for more than 2 weeks.
You're weak, you will never breed.
Der Coomer will disappear in a few generations
complete meme. if you're an autist now you're gonna be an autist on no fap too. your autism is way stronger than your lust, no matter how strong it is.
nope, he won't even try.
>Projecting this hard
what am i projecting? not even trying to argue btw. i literally don't know what you're talking about.
You are projecting your own lack of willpower and overload of autism upon others. Just look up projection psychology.
TLDR, a loser thinks everyone else is a loser too
i wrote IF he's an autist quite clearly. i don't give two shits what's he like around women. and now get off my lap you insufferable downie.
>Nope, he won't even try
Yeah you do care gay, stop projecting
>nope, he won't even try.
weak bro, false bro
OP is gonna make it
this
This is what happened to me
holy fuck, I thought I was the only one.
This. You act more needy i think.
I've noticed I attract more if I'm cooming.
But I prefer not to. at least everyday.
I just coomed today btw. Had been 1 week no cooom.
It is viable, but you need to go to a place to meet girls worth dating, and dating apps are not an option if you want a decent relationship
such as?
Church, local clubs or classes over shared interests are good places to look
>Church
Fatties
>local clubs and classes
Sausagefest or couples
>Church
Meme. Every bangable woman has accepted that single guys jerk off. They don't care.
Expensive neighborhoods where young attractive single people live and hang out; like Rice and Midtown in Houston.
yes
correct
you're supposed to talk to more than one
because you're a dude
don't go to church to meet girls
correct
this, I've had two gfs from dating apps. They were both nice people but ultimately you can't really vet someone and plus girls looking for love on dating apps will pursue it HARD
It works but the downside is that you have a gf now
why can't a girl just ask me out
shut up gays
A better long term strategy is to quit porn and limit ‘batin to once a week until gf.
Get your ‘release’ on a Sunday so by Friday and Saturday you should be riled up enough to talk to girls.
If nothing happens at least you can release the pressure on Sunday.
moron loving fags
No one loves you, that's why you are the way you are
I actually started the no fapping thing but got so worked up I started edging real hard. No payoff but constantly did it till I got bored even of that. What I did notice which is all anecdotal, but I noticed that I started full on talking to girls in the gym and actually getting a good reception from them.
seething moron lovers
Test
Pretty much how I met my current gf. I didnt even quit porn or masturbation, I just didnt allow myself to masturbate on pornsites, only shit I found on youtube.
>be me
>jerk off to porn since age 10
Anyone that tells you that doesn't stunt you in multiple aspects of you life is a fucking demon.
Quit that shit moron
How long does it take the brain to heal from the damage excessive porn and masturbation did over the years?
I'd say about a year honestly, but a couple months off it already helps a lot
Bout tree fiddy
About 3 month or so for, i've been addicted to extreme porn for more than 15 year, i couldn't get hard unless i was watching some triple anal gangbang and shit. since i've stopped porn i get far more natural erection
>on craigslist
>picture shows pile of weight plates with a barbell
>title says "free weights"
>message guy
>when can i pick them up?
>arrange time
>day comes, go to his house
>he brings me to the garage
>i start loading the plates into the back of my truck
>we're halfway through loading everything up when he says this
>"ok that'll be $500"
>i laugh and put another 45lb plate into the truck
>i walk back over to the pile
>the seller stops me by putting his hand on my chest
>says 'seriously, did you bring the money or not?'
>of course i didn't, they are free
>he calls the police
>i go home without the weights
what the fuck is going on in the world bros? after covid it seems like everybody is so angry with so much agrression
I had no idea people did copy pastas on IST
i meant to make this as a separate post
gay loving moron
Everyone knows you're American bro, no one gives a fuck
You seem to have included me by mistake. I'll let it slide this time anon but don't you call me that ever again
>quit porn and masturbation
>T spikes a lot
>I become very aggressive
>made my sparring partner bleed
>almost crashed my car out of anger
Am I the only one?
he is ascending
this is your natural state. your natural prerogative is to kill and destroy
think of this as your natural state that you have to gain control over. you have no struggle to maintain and get a hold of yourself if you are eating like shit, blasting nuts to porn, and living like a degenerate. this is why rich owner of society give you things to make you docile. your natural state is very vigilant and actionable and high T. guess what most of todays modern vices attack?
Yeah if I don't bust 1-2 times a week I get too aggro.
I try to stick to insta girls in bikinis not hardcore porn tho.
Refer back to
, your opinion on anything doesn't matter
this guy has completely lost the plot
this is pathological behavior
The point is to push through the horny until you gain command of your base instincts, becoming human instead of a caged ape.
thats gay as fuck you corny nerd
weak-minded. This is what jizzing in your hand does to your brain. Sad!
lol nerd
Pathetic.
totally viable but you just need to not masturbate to porn. jerk off on a decent basis (few times a week) but dont go into the porn hunt for novelty or online harem of strangers to do it. just use your imagination or memories of hot shit and knock a nut out. then when youre with a girl itll have been however long since youve even seen tits or pussy and youll enjoy it more. porn really is a junk food, or hard drugs equivalent to your sex drive. and a gains goblin.
gfs are a myth.
science says gfs are real
Lifting unironically is a better motivator to get a gf than quitting porn due to increased testosterone plus looking at cute girls while you work out.
meme that after a week or two will turn you into a creep that gets instant boner the moment he sees attractive girl with yoga pants outside
Just my experience but I fell for a girl so hard that the idea of looking at porn and masturbating became repulsive to me so I stopped. Fast forward 6 weeks and I had a gf.
real fr i hope that feeling stays for you.
for me its no pussy is better than hers, but i still think about other flavors yk?
>bought some sex toys in the middle of a cooming streak
>immediate regret
>package didn't arrive after a month so I got a refund
>one day, it arrives at my doorstep anyway
>I have yet to use any of its contents
The refund was a message from a higher force to quit that stuff, but satan's box tempts me every day.
Throw em out anon
But, what if, I mean, it's, uh, you know, it could, I don't know, it's uh, well...
Bought a box of straps, belts, gags, handcuffs, etc. Broke up with gf a 2 days later
Meme, you'll probably just end up prison gay
the thing is I stop wanting a gf and stop feeling sad about not having one as soon as I bust lmao. nutting literally sets you free... until you the posion enters your body once again.
>imagine seeing your literal seed as a poison that must be extracted instead of simply gaining control of your base desires and not wasting it
why wont you shut the fuck up if you have nothing nice to say? i know you´re a pussy in real life, fag
it worked for me but my autism made it take months longer than it should have. let them come to you
It works honestly. Then you date a few girls and you realize they kind of all just suck and are annoying to deal with most of the time. Then you turn the energy you save from not fapping into doing better things.
Anyone remember Good Idea/Bad Idea on Animaniacs? Every episode would have a segment called "Good Idea/Bad Idea" where they would educate people with images of what a good idea would be and then a bad idea, which would be slightly different worded but end up in comedy farce. No wonder actual boomers and zoomers are so braindead when they never had this wisdom from 90s cartoons.
Good Idea: Cut back heavily on porn and masturbation, only allow yourself to do them during certain times during the day while giving them a miss other days. Avoid sites that give coombait - eg. like this.
>Montage of being a nice clean cool guy smiling and getting a nice girlfriend.
Bad Idea: Absolute force yourself to have zero masturbation whatsoever, not even enough to clear out your ejaculation, which is good for prostate cancer.
>Montage of guy struggling in a world of pain worse than ketolards and then scaring off girls by having a raging throbbing erection if they so much look in their direction and looking like a wild heroin addict madman.
Why would you go to extremes? Why, why, why? It's so obviously a meme, just like fasting. The boring way is usually the best way.
Framing your position as the sane, middle ground between extremes is a rhetorical trick, not an argument. Sometimes the truth isn’t in the middle. Also your depiction of what happens to people who refrain from masturbating is absurd, and simply cannot be true given the existence of observant Christians, Muslims, garden gnomes, Buddhists and so on who have provided living counter examples on a massive scale for millennia.
Literally one of the worst effort-to-value ratios I’ve seen on this website.
>Framing your position as the sane, middle ground between extremes is a rhetorical trick, not an argument. Sometimes the truth isn’t in the middle
It's a perfectly valid argument. Whether it be fasting, keto, veganism, it can hardly be denied that a lot of people go to extremes on something. There's even a word for it - extremism. You obviously don't have to agree with how I frame it, someone at the extreme side of something isn't wrong by default but in this particular situation people going to extremes is a part of my argument.
>Also your depiction of what happens to people who refrain from masturbating is absurd, and simply cannot be true given the existence of observant Christians, Muslims, garden gnomes, Buddhists and so on who have provided living counter examples on a massive scale for millennia.
None of those religions say anything about a lot of masturbation that I know of - for sure not Christians anyway and I doubt garden gnomes either.
Actually the fact that even those religions (or classes of religions) allow it despite them being so traditionally strict and harsh (especially Islam) just goes to prove how utterly insane hogwash, useless and pointless it is - even the strictest religions imaginable didn't forbid it. They had stoning to death of people who committed adultery, crucifixion of blasphemous people, sodomy being a mortal since, no meat eaten or work done on a Sunday, looking into a woman's eyes with lust a terrible sin, cooming - "go ahead brah, go crazy with it". And here you guys are, in year of our lord 2,022 , pornography beyond the wildest dreams of ancient kings everywhere, actually preventing yourself from doing it. Aren't you afraid of getting prostate cancer from this unhealthy behaviour?
>Literally one of the worst effort-to-value ratios I’ve seen on this website.
I didn't put much effort into that post at all, everything I wanted to say came to me very quickly, it was just the annoyance of having to type it out that took the most time/effort. You are one to talk about making fallacious or "trick" arguments when you're actually trying to criticize me for putting effort into my arguments.
I got a girlfriend this winter and quitting porn and masturbation was suprisingly easy. I'm struggling with it again unfortunately because we're now long distance.
>quit porn and masturbation
no effect
>quit IST
universe conspires to give me a girlfriend after just 1 week
not even joking, I should really stop coming here
What's the obsession with cocks, some kind of queer?
Makes you understand the cute submissive gf you want isn't gonna ask you out first because she's too cute and submissive
>masturbate regularly
>don't text tinder matches not even 8s
>no desire to meet them anyway
>stop masturbating
>starting to text them and flirt with them
>meeting with a 8 icelandic girl next week
Guess it works
Worked for me. I pity coomers who still dont give nofap a try
depends on what you mean by "girlfriend." Here's what reality is for people who even need to try to buy into this cringe strategy
>oh no porn and jacking it are the root of all evil
>I'll quit and get a gf
>you IMPROOVEmax and do whatever it takes to get a gf
>your increased desperation makes you settle
>you get some fat landwhale or ugly person
>people make fun of you
that's basically it
Change the script coomer shill
Anyone else find the idea of getting a girlfriend kinda cringey nowadays? I mean, think about all the freedom you lose once your tied up with someone, and even worse what if you don't get along? That would suck!
In my opinion, 2022 is not a good time to be finding a girlfriend. If it happens completely naturally - you meet someone and you just click, then sure that's great. But searching for a girl is just cringe.
Again, just my personal opinion.
After being single for a year after having a gf for 8 years being tied up would suck ass. You need to find a girl who will be the cherry on top for your life, not someone whos always there, clingy and is co dependant and kills your dreams, etc. Find a girl who wants to hang out once week but msg daily
Nofap is a death trap designed by highly political left wing extremist feminist SJW socialist communist globalist liberal gold diggers than want to get pregnant from you, divorce rape you, legally steal everything you own and all your money, and force you to pay child support for the rest of your life and they raise the kid as a liberal and tell them fake stories so they hate their father. They also take your dog that you owned before you met them and put the dog down after they win it in court just to spite you. If you even go near these types of women they will make up false sexual abuse allegations to blackmail you. they are angler fish. succubi. sirens.
How does this work? They tell you that fapping is bad and that you should never do it. This results in men making the subconscious assumption that it's not okay to fap, but that it's okay to have sex to release. This leads to a domino effect of other assumptions that lead a man to seek a woman to get sex, and the women that are lying in wait are predators who created the nofap meme. Then all those horrible things happen, and they ruin your life, because they hate men. It was all planned. they use you and ruin you and you let them do it because you are LUST DRUNK.
next time you go on a date, go in the bathroom and have a quick fap. when you come out you will take one look at her and go "BITCH LMAO YOU ARE PAYING FOR YOUR OWN DINNER" and leave immediately because you will be clear minded and see her for the gold digging hoe thoth she really is.
They want you on nofap because you can't control your brain if you are drunk on lust. they want you making stupid bad decisions so they can NAIL YOU.
This is the real truth about nofap that they do not want you to know.
DON'T FALL FOR IT.
IF YOU FAP, THEY CAN NOT TRAP.
Please for the love of GOD screen cap this and post it in every single no fap thread until the end of time. NOBODY ever replies to this, NOBODY ever reacts or responds. This perfect solid truth has NEVER been debated because it's 100% TRUE and they got NOTHING to say. post it EVERY SINGLE TIME NO FAP IS MENTIONED.
nobody wants to screencap your cringepost
>>use the horniness to get a girlfriend
Lol, is that what you think is supposed to happen?
Complete meme. No one who struggled to get a gf ever ended up that way because they "weren't horny enough". How bout instead you fix the real underlying cause...the rampant autism, which is off the charts in this thread from many posters btw.
192 days into noporn, AMA.
Why do you lie? You browse IST.
From my experience with nofap you're really horny for the first month or so but after that it goes away and you go back to normal.
very viable
it just turned me from regular incel to horny incel
>DUDE JUST RENOUNCE YOUR SEX DRIVE ENTIRELY LMAO BECOME A HECKIN BASED CHRISTKEK WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE BRO
no-porn is obviously better