>meet girl
>really like her
>a lot
>quit jerking off and watching porn because this girl becomes my romantic focus
>blah blah blah
>we start getting intimate and I can't get hard
What the fuck, help me bros
>meet girl. >really like her. >a lot
I’m on day 10 of nofap holy fuark the blue balls
What's your motivation brahh
How do uou even vet that far? I can't even last more rhan 2 days. It's harder than making myself exercising twice day
>we start getting intimate and I can't get hard
happens to most people on their first time retard
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAAHHAHAAA
hes true albeit
>happens to most people on their first time retard
I was hard as diamonds my first time but only lasted about 2 seconds. Not even exagerating.
It's
Over
I dunno mane, I seem to never have an issue getting hard
yes
D: Rude
The
>blah blah blah
was supposed to indicate a time skip over weeks actually
I nutted in my pants making out with my date in my moms car after junior prom.
You are spreading fake news.
same
I was fucking diamonds my first few times holding hands with a girl.
This is a new phenomena because it certainly didn't happen to most of my generation. It might be due to the ease of access of hardcore pornpgraphy now. When I were a lad, we were lucky to find a scrap of softcore porn mag in the bushes on the local park. This meant that most of our masturbation was imagination based.
OP literally said he has engaged in #nofap. Stop with these ridiculous conspiracy theories about pornography, pornography literally helps people see how sex is done and even have a voyeuristic type of sexual experience. Lots of people with normal healthy sex lives often watch a ton of porn even though many try hard not to (for their relationship's sake something very different to nofap incels).
OP is living proof that he has practiced nofap and is still like this, it failed him. It didn't work. And you still somehow come out with how it was all porn's fault, such fucking bullshit.
People have trouble getting hard because of anxiety and the weight of the world bearing down on them due to how they never had any major sexual experience before. If he had been having sexual experiences from a very young age like animals in nature do he would have no problems like this. All he has to do is normalize it to himself, not make it into this massive thing. You know the vast majority of guys fail as pornstars because once the cameras come on and audience and everyone is looking at them, the little guy hides or is shy about coming out and they can't perform, even if they had tons of other sexual experience.
Whatever the case get back to the drawing board because pornography has nothing to do with it.
OP here, I agree with some of what you have to say and also some of what the other guy has to say, I'm really just here to absorb as much info as I can
> If he had been having sexual experiences from a very young age like animals in nature do he would have no problems like this. All he has to do is normalize it to himself, not make it into this massive thing
I think you're pretty dead on with this tho, assuming when you say "young age" you mean like 16-17
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I tried
Its ok anon it happens to lots of guys,
He quit porn and masturbation. He didn't say how long for dick weed porn shill. Just because you're a fucking addict doesn't mean you should try and drag everybody else into your addiction
Shalom to you too
> You know the vast majority of guys fail as pornstars because once the cameras come on and audience and everyone is looking at them, the little guy hides or is shy about coming out and they can't perform, even if they had tons of other sexual experience.
Lol you’re just wrong. In college me and a couple of guys would make porn with girls and upload them on motherless (veterans discount to whoever remembers) and get thousands of views. Some of the guys havent even had sex that much and we would title it “virgin nerd gets laid” and shit like that. Even they had no problem fucking on camera.
You must have pulled that out of your ass lol.
I've fucked really ugly girls with no problem whatsoever. I don't understand how this could happen tbh.
Not everyone into bestiality
I think maybe my problem here is that I am a late bloomer so to speak, 2X year old virgin, practically an incel in terms of experience. Its just really weird, after I quit porn (something I regulated to like once every week) I've just found I'm not as sexually hungry, its only been like 2/3 weeks tho. Odd considering whenever I've gone through long streaks I turn into a lust monster. Not really sure what's going on :/
Did you try making out for a while
I was with a girl for 5 days losing my v card and I couldn't get an erection...
You're just nervous, anon.
It's harder for me when the lights are on.
You're gay, pack it in.
>meet girl
>2 days later
>sex sex sex sex sex sex sex
>i can't get hard
stfu
Real advice here.
You gotta take control of the situation and your fear/nervousness.
Command her, think of her like an object. I like to make her sit in a submissive position, like on her knees in front of me, and choke her. Gets me hard in an instant, then tell her to jerk me off. If you get overloaded with nervous feelings, take a step back, try and reset, just say it,ll come give it some time, make her laugh a little. DONT EVER SHOW that it gets to you are that you care. That is an instant turn off for you both. Keep in mind that this is normal for everyone to experience every once in a while, its not a big deal.
tldr; Dont show it bothers you. internalize that it is not a big deal. Take control. Think of her as a whore, be dominant.
Absolute incel tier advice. Don’t listen to this virgin.
>just objectify women bro
>make it all about you bro just get in your own head
>hide everything you feel
>she’s just a whore anyways
Real advice: Remember that sex is for the pleasure of BOTH of you. The more you are turned on the more she is turned on and vice versw. Your energy is connected. If you sit there thinking “you’re just a whore. I can get hard to whores. I jerk off all the time.” That is NOT going to work, she will pick up on this and not be turned on enough to fuck you 100%, though she still might fool you into thinking she is. If it does it will only get more difficult to build a genuine connection with her because your mind will just associate sex with porn. Turn her on. Notice her getting turned on and then turn her on even more. Get comfortable with her as much as possible. Embrace her and feel the sexual tension. You shouldn’t even be thinking about your dick. THAT is being dominant. Take control both of your sexual energy. Not just your own.
>The more you are turned on the more she is turned on and vice versw
Literally, the best sex is when she wants you for who you are, and you want her for who she is
Sex with someone you truly love is unmatchable
You have never touched a woman
OP do not follow this advice or you will have good sex in your life
will never, that is
Perversion. Depravity. Insecurity. Vanity. Frusteration.
You have never experienced real love. You have never experienced real sex.
Take a long hard look, people. This is your brain on pornography.
The first paragraph was on point tho. Then it went downhill really fast
Coomer got his feelings hurt.
wtf lol
Don't worry anon I'm not retarded
Bro I get hard around her all the time, just like sitting next to her and holding her hand and I'm trying to hide that I'm pitching a tent but for the life of my sex is scary.
say something crazy like "The second one of those village girls who are obsessed with Gaston in beauty and the beast."
I would just say Gaston lol
bro touch grass
>I can't get hard
probably nerves
The girl will understand, they get the same thing when nervous where their pussy gets too tight for penetration
Unrelated to OP how do I answer this question in a fun flirty way?? This was the prompt a qt sent me on bumble and this is actual hell
Fuck forgot pic
My mother
>go on IST
>fall for the slampig meme
>about to fuck fat bitch
>so repulsed by her couldn't even get hard
>play it off as whiskey dick
T-thanks IST
Cyalis
don't try fucking her as soon as your pants are off
lie there and kiss her play with her tits kiss her neck, FOCUS ON THE TITS AND HER LIPS
dick only gets hard when you forget about it
Just get some Viagra until you get over your performance anxiety.
>it's another "normalfags complain about normalfag problems" thread
Go to /adv/ or something. IST is a virgin board. Always has been, always will be.