Just found out I’m infertile. Please SwoleShack, how do I cope? I feel like bashing my skull into a wall until there is nothing left.
Just found out Im infertile. Please?
Just found out I’m infertile. Please SwoleShack, how do I cope? I feel like bashing my skull into a wall until there is nothing left.
Well, if you wanted children. I’m sorry beyond belief. I think children are the only reason why life is worth living. Stay close to the lord and remember him at all times and he will remember you. Keep fucking your wife or gf with the intention of breeding her and you might get blessed. If you don’t want children, then what does it matter?
I don’t have a wife or gf but I’m only 21 and would like children. What’s even the point if you can’t have kids? The worst part though is I just can’t get it out of my head. Every waking second I just have this thought that I can’t have kids stuck in my head and it’s killing me.
Are you the OP?
Yes
Thanks. I kind of just find it hard to care at the moment but in the future maybe.
I m sure with ivf many things are possible but it’s still just eating me up I guess.
How did you find out you were infertile? Usually dudes only find that out when they're trying to have kids with their wives and go to a fertility clinic. Seems odd that you found this out when you're only 21.
Op here. Lots of nice replies through the night and genuinely appreciate them. I like to think it will be possible for me to have a kid some day through ivf. Still this is just mentally killing me anyway.
I have came basically nothing my entire life and tried everything on the sun to fix it (drink 4L a day, coom stack, etc) nothing worked so decided to see a doctor and I am physiologically missing the organ which produces like 70% of the semen by volume. They said it’s very rare and have no idea why it happens. So on top of being infertile I also cum basically nothing (quite often dry orgasms) which I also hate. There is also no fix for that.
Good luck anon, WAGMI never forget
Bless up to all the real niggas ITT giving support and sharing their experience
I know some people will shit on this but adoption can be very rewarding anon. I understand they are not your genetics but to take a child out of a fucking shit system and essentially save them from a hellish life is an admirable thing to do. To provide them with a loving safe environment after their abandonment.
Me and my wife went through ivf because she has endometriosis and for us, it fortunately worked and we ended up with twin boys. However, we were first told we didn't qualify for ivf and for a month or two we were distraught. My wife wanted me to leave her and I told her my thoughts on adoption and she started to feel better about things. Fortunately we got a phone call telling us they had tested her at the wrong point in her cycle.
We are still considering adoption for a third child.
Whatever you choose to do anon, good luck
Wow man that's rough, glad to hear you're happy now though. That's almost tragic that your wife told you to leave her, what a nice lady.
I’m glad it worked out for you. I think adoption is good- my dad was adopted. It would freak me out though getting some fucked up kid so you’d probably want to get a baby. Also I think you’d have to find the right girl for it.
I think adoption is a good choice too, of course it will never be same thing as raising your own flesh and blood but you can still give a kid a good childhood and raise him right. Whichever path you choose, OP, I wish you the best and I'm sorry this has happened to you.
Godspeed to you and your family man. Wish you the best
Try going to many doctors - get a second opinion and... just fuck until it will work. I am not saying it will work guaranteed but with todays medical advances and sheer willpower you will be a,azed by yourself.
Worst case ´- there is still the possibility of adoption.
Best of luck my man
I know SwoleShack shits on adoption but there's nothing cucked or wrong about it if you can afford it imo. There were even a few Roman emperors with adopted sons who succeeded them iirc. Good luck anon.
Nut in every girl you can. Maybe you’ll get lucky. Maybe you’ll get herpes. Worth a shot.
read somewhere that ashwagandha helps with your problem. also try zinc. dont give up. how old are you btw
I am “missing seminal vesicals” I’m not sure a powder can do anything about that.
i mean you are only 21. you cant just give up. 21 century ffs surely there's cure for you disease
Mate, if you're missing just that piece of your reproductive system you may not be able to impregnate a woman in the traditional way but artificial insemination might be possible
Think about it, your balls produce sperm, your prostate produce some minor volume and pushes it outside, and the seminal vesicles produce the majority of the volume, that nourishes and transports the actual sperm
I'd bet this is available right now, but in 10 years when you actually would want children our methods may be even better, so don't be so sad right now
How does one know he's infertile? No ejaculation?
I have always had a very very low volume (0- <1ml) and I finally saw a doc and they gave me a rectal ultrasound (do not recommend) and I am missing things.
There is only the lift now.
just be yourself
I got my infertility confirmed back in 2019 at the age of 26, but I was told I was likely to be infertile during my teen years.
In some ways it sucks in that you won't have a direct genetic line to the next generation. But that doesn't mean you can't make your mark on the world. I think without children, one should dedicate time and energy to improving their community. Volunteer with children's organizations, churches, homeless shelters and/or adult education groups. You get exposed to some of the worst groups of civilized societies, but you know how shitty it can be so your efforts are to make things better. Help develop better people to go out into the world so they can improve the world further.
Do not fret. With this path, you should still opt to be your best. You'll just plant more trees whose shadow you won't be able to sit in
Damn anon I’m not even an infertilecel and this made me kinda teary eyed. Honestly everyone here needs to log off and just better their communities. Fuxk all this mogging and blackpill nonsense
how did you find out?
are you fucking kidding?
hop on trt, cruise/blast forever with no concern
fuck sloots and coom in them with no concern
enjoy your life to the max, that's all there is for you.
>enjoy your life to the max
>hedonism
lol, lmao even
What else is there to do? Listen to what the King of the israelites tells you what to do?
It will be harder to prove you raped someone, if that makes you feel better
Go MGTOW
Hire a black man to breed your GF with his powerful BBC.
Maybe there are other options dude its 2022 you might still be able to have child
I donated sperm and have 16 kids already apparently. Already won the genetic game kek
I got snipped years ago, no kids. Fuck that noise. My friends with kids now have no time, my wife and I can work all over the world and travel at the drop of a hat. Look on the bright side. Plus, raw dog it every fucking time.
How do I tell if I'm infertile?
You just gotta get some tests done. No real way to check at home unless you get (or get someone) pregnant. My sister had a child at 18 but gave it up for adoption (didn't really know the baby daddy, knew she wasn't emotionally mature enough to raise a child, and a little bit of our aunt manipulating her into adoption as well). She's 32 now and is having a difficult time getting pregnant again due to her PCOS. She was only diagnosed a couple of years ago, which is probably why she didn't have any problems when she was younger. I'm not ready for kids just yet but I am now worried about my fertility. Gonna get some tests done so I can see if it's worth trying for kids in the future or if I should just not even bother.
I'm sorry anon
get a second opinion
Clone yourself, OP. Know hope.
Could be worse honestly, my cousins cousin is infertile and his wife adopted a niglet from Africa because of it. Talk about double whammy.
atificial incimination. just start saving, youll get your kid. its how i was born. dad had same issue.
Can anyone explaim why sperm donations are a thing? Is the sperm being used to inseminate single women who can't get a partner? I can't imagine daising another man's child
if you want kids:
>adoption
>artificial insemination
if you dont want:
>raw dog with no worries about kids
life on easy