Never be yourself. Be yourself is just something say. Never, ever, ever be yourself.
Alright I went into thinking mode for a few seconds like Jordan Peterson does sometimes when thinking about a question (not that I particularly like him) and here's what I've come up with for people having trouble - be chad without the assholery. Dress like chad, speak like chad, try to engineer situations where it looks like other people are treating you like chad (this one could be hard but possible), and overall play the part of chad. She will start doubting her eyes. Remember that women are very impressionable and aren't attracted visually in the same way men are.
However, don't try to get away with all the stuff chad does - do it a little so she thinks you're chad, but don't push it.
If instead you play the role of incel or dweeb who doesn't know what they're doing, she will pick up on that, you will be seen as the reject of society, so why would she want you. Remember that most women are like sheep, they really are.
Everyone needs an ideal to which they constantly aspire to. Everyone needs a good role model. ("Good" not in the sense of "goodboye", but in the sense of "inspiring, cool, powerful, benevolent", etc). Everyone needs to keep improving so that their current self is always better than their past self.
So yes, DON'T just "bee yourself".
That's for gays, failures and twitter trannies.
Btw Peterson speaks about this stuff in his second book in chapter 2 "imagine who you could be and then aim single mindedly at that".
#1 is getting rid of the brainghost of "chad" which is a sterotype of a stereotype passed through such an amount of memetic processing that reality is only a faint memory.
No.
Whether he is called Alpha, Chad, GigaChad, Ubermensch or Hero matters not. The subtext remains the same. Men want to be or aspire to be like the superior male. Stop trying to back door your emasculation agenda.
>stereotype passed through such an amount of memetic processing that reality is only a faint memory.
No shit dumb ass that's the point. Chad is the aspiration that drags us from our lower animal selves to the higher superior man. It's an ideal that is ever rising.
except putting napoleon, aristotle, stalin, david bowie and mike tyson under the umbrella of "chad" is just simplyfying things too hard to be useful, like when you reduce the resolution of an image to 3x3 and end up with two brown and seven grey pixels
That's just acting out a retarded predefined set of behaviors. Unironically, be yourself, but that means not giving a single fuck about what other people think about you. That's the hard part. Be unapologetic
The reason this advice falls short is because you aren't defining what chad means
I have seen losers try the fake it till you make it scheme, and over the years 100% of them have completely given up and now work for $15/hr 20 hrs a week and are obese. These people tried to be chad, lied about who they were and because it was so fucking cringe everyone knew exactly what they were doing.
One of them LITERALLY started dating a chud because it was an "influencer".
Saying "dress like chad, speak like chad" just means stop wearing band tshirts and rick and morty shirts, while speak like chad just means don't screech about garden gnomes while in public.
These toxic losers don't need to either "be yourself" or "act like chad" the real kicker is to understand *exactly* why you aren't making it and working on that. Personality sucks? Ok you're probably an insufferable loser who takes his issues out on the world when you're 100% at fault, quit crying and do something about it. Ugly? Too fucking bad, lose weight to fix up the face a little bit and get a good fucking job.
Why be the guy pretending to be someone else when you can be that guy who cleaned himself up, became an engineer, got a hobby other than watching trains, and to be the person who makes others laugh?
I think theres a difference between personality and how you act. I genuinely think my personality is very odd, but ive just embraced it honestly and im very open with it now and it comes across so much better with girls than when I literally closed away how I was.
In fact, when I had less to be self concious about weight wise I realised it had a massive effect on how I viewed myself, and my other quirks. Its a lot harder to be "okay" with yourself when you can see in the mirror that you arent okay.
Chads are able to work with what they have with absolute confidence all the time. Ive only met a few people I would genuinely call "chads" and the main thing was >Confident >Cheeky/Banter but never goes too far and always more positive >Very open with hobbies and goals
I realised from them that having hobbies and habits that you want to talk about makes you instantly a better socialiser due to both the experiences in those hobbies and others in your life actually having shit to talk to you about
A big part of what makes Chad, Chad, is his abundance mentality. You have to truly believe that you have an abundance of opportunities and be willing to drop the current one when shit test are pushed too far. Chad can afford to be a gentlemen because he has boundaries. The moment those boundaries are breached the situation is immediately dealt with and the relationship is nixxed if the individual doesn't fall in line with Chad's frame or world view.
If you are obsessive (read: have oneitis) and let her walk all over you then you've already lost. The moment she doesn't respect you the relationship/association is already dead so you might as well leave with your dignity intact.
This should be how you approach the world in general. Be quick to rectify shitty situations and always be willing to end relationships for anyone in your life.
99% of IST doesn't need to be themselves, their toxic and feminine personalities are exactly why they're incels. Be anyone but yourself, yourselves are horrible people
60% of myself is pretty easy to deal with. I can basically befriend anybody and make them comfortable around me for an indefinite amount of time but I eventually lose interest and I also have anger issues
Damn and his dick is apparently decent sized too.
And no i didn't make this thread any gayer than it already was
some guys have it all..
Never be yourself. Be yourself is just something say. Never, ever, ever be yourself.
Alright I went into thinking mode for a few seconds like Jordan Peterson does sometimes when thinking about a question (not that I particularly like him) and here's what I've come up with for people having trouble - be chad without the assholery. Dress like chad, speak like chad, try to engineer situations where it looks like other people are treating you like chad (this one could be hard but possible), and overall play the part of chad. She will start doubting her eyes. Remember that women are very impressionable and aren't attracted visually in the same way men are.
However, don't try to get away with all the stuff chad does - do it a little so she thinks you're chad, but don't push it.
If instead you play the role of incel or dweeb who doesn't know what they're doing, she will pick up on that, you will be seen as the reject of society, so why would she want you. Remember that most women are like sheep, they really are.
Very based advice.
Everyone needs an ideal to which they constantly aspire to. Everyone needs a good role model. ("Good" not in the sense of "goodboye", but in the sense of "inspiring, cool, powerful, benevolent", etc). Everyone needs to keep improving so that their current self is always better than their past self.
So yes, DON'T just "bee yourself".
That's for gays, failures and twitter trannies.
Btw Peterson speaks about this stuff in his second book in chapter 2 "imagine who you could be and then aim single mindedly at that".
#1 is getting rid of the brainghost of "chad" which is a sterotype of a stereotype passed through such an amount of memetic processing that reality is only a faint memory.
>t. søyboy social engineer
No.
Whether he is called Alpha, Chad, GigaChad, Ubermensch or Hero matters not. The subtext remains the same. Men want to be or aspire to be like the superior male. Stop trying to back door your emasculation agenda.
>stereotype passed through such an amount of memetic processing that reality is only a faint memory.
No shit dumb ass that's the point. Chad is the aspiration that drags us from our lower animal selves to the higher superior man. It's an ideal that is ever rising.
except putting napoleon, aristotle, stalin, david bowie and mike tyson under the umbrella of "chad" is just simplyfying things too hard to be useful, like when you reduce the resolution of an image to 3x3 and end up with two brown and seven grey pixels
That's just acting out a retarded predefined set of behaviors. Unironically, be yourself, but that means not giving a single fuck about what other people think about you. That's the hard part. Be unapologetic
The reason this advice falls short is because you aren't defining what chad means
I have seen losers try the fake it till you make it scheme, and over the years 100% of them have completely given up and now work for $15/hr 20 hrs a week and are obese. These people tried to be chad, lied about who they were and because it was so fucking cringe everyone knew exactly what they were doing.
One of them LITERALLY started dating a chud because it was an "influencer".
Saying "dress like chad, speak like chad" just means stop wearing band tshirts and rick and morty shirts, while speak like chad just means don't screech about garden gnomes while in public.
These toxic losers don't need to either "be yourself" or "act like chad" the real kicker is to understand *exactly* why you aren't making it and working on that. Personality sucks? Ok you're probably an insufferable loser who takes his issues out on the world when you're 100% at fault, quit crying and do something about it. Ugly? Too fucking bad, lose weight to fix up the face a little bit and get a good fucking job.
Why be the guy pretending to be someone else when you can be that guy who cleaned himself up, became an engineer, got a hobby other than watching trains, and to be the person who makes others laugh?
I think theres a difference between personality and how you act. I genuinely think my personality is very odd, but ive just embraced it honestly and im very open with it now and it comes across so much better with girls than when I literally closed away how I was.
In fact, when I had less to be self concious about weight wise I realised it had a massive effect on how I viewed myself, and my other quirks. Its a lot harder to be "okay" with yourself when you can see in the mirror that you arent okay.
Chads are able to work with what they have with absolute confidence all the time. Ive only met a few people I would genuinely call "chads" and the main thing was
>Confident
>Cheeky/Banter but never goes too far and always more positive
>Very open with hobbies and goals
I realised from them that having hobbies and habits that you want to talk about makes you instantly a better socialiser due to both the experiences in those hobbies and others in your life actually having shit to talk to you about
A big part of what makes Chad, Chad, is his abundance mentality. You have to truly believe that you have an abundance of opportunities and be willing to drop the current one when shit test are pushed too far. Chad can afford to be a gentlemen because he has boundaries. The moment those boundaries are breached the situation is immediately dealt with and the relationship is nixxed if the individual doesn't fall in line with Chad's frame or world view.
If you are obsessive (read: have oneitis) and let her walk all over you then you've already lost. The moment she doesn't respect you the relationship/association is already dead so you might as well leave with your dignity intact.
This should be how you approach the world in general. Be quick to rectify shitty situations and always be willing to end relationships for anyone in your life.
Mog me
Feed me lies
99% of IST doesn't need to be themselves, their toxic and feminine personalities are exactly why they're incels. Be anyone but yourself, yourselves are horrible people
60% of myself is pretty easy to deal with. I can basically befriend anybody and make them comfortable around me for an indefinite amount of time but I eventually lose interest and I also have anger issues
my coworkers think i'm funny and nice
i am myself, but a slightly less racist version of it irl
Never understood when normies say this like bro who else am I supposed to be?
I don't know myself. I need to know death first.
Pros:
-blue eyes
-low body fat
-good hairline
-symetric face
-strong eyebrows
-thick lips
Contras:
-weak chin
-forehead wrinkles
-tattoos
Except for blue eyes, you can easily achieve all he did and then be successful being yourself.
Myself is an Incel autist it’s over
tattoos look like dirt!
Bright blue eyes. Someone shop them to be brown please I need to see what he looks like with brown eyes.
lmao he goes down from a 9/10 to a 7/10 at best
poop eyed bugs btfoed
ig it's time to take the blue contacts pill?
Would he look better with green eyes?
Green would be better than brown but nothing beat silver/bright blue eyes.
kek that only applies to women. guys need a certain look to pull it off and his eyes don't really match him. green would def suit him better
I don't think green eyes are that bright in real life.
They are with good lighting, but in bad lighting they just look brown.
mutted
>here's my OC character teehee :^)
newfags
DESU
Go back. Leave now
Too dark
Too bright
Both of these eye edits are wrong.
Go back
Who is this?
Butthurt incel detected