I'm a 19 year old kissIess virgin. How can I build up my self confidence? I also don't have a drivers license. I'm 5'10 and 138 lbs, and I just feel so weak. I hate my body, and don't know where to start in improving it. Please help.
I'm a 19 year old kissIess virgin. How can I build up my self confidence? I also don't have a drivers license.
progressive overload.
You start at the beginning.
You're welcome.
Don't read the sticky, it's full of shit.
>I'm a 19 year old kissIess virgin. How can I build up my self confidence?
Just get a girlfriend.
just be confident bro
what do people mean exactly when they say to be confident?
>I'm a 19 year old kissIess virgin
Dude you're not even that late in a normal generation, and the years from 16-19 got stolen by the flu. If you turn 24 and it still hasn't happened you're doing something wrong, which most likely is not meeting enough people and doing fun things with your friends
cope overdose
get a driver's license, lift, learn to fight, surround yourself with other confident people, learn how to dress well, etc.
Stop caring what other people think of you. You only get one shot at life, why waste it holding yourself back from what you wanna do because of what some NPC homosexual might think you're weird?
Whenever you feel unsure about yourself, just picture yourself at 90 on your deathbed, having lived a boring life and achieved nothing of note because you were worried about what others might think of you. Think of the regret you'd feel, and the trivialness of whatever it is you're worried about. And then go do it.
Not OP, but i think lying on my deathbed and dying completely alone and forgotten would be pretty miserable, last thoughts would be "if only i had a family" or some shit. Too bad ihavr never touched a woman lol
>i think lying on my deathbed and dying completely alone and forgotten would be pretty miserable
Exactly. It would be completely miserable. That's precisely why you need to avoid it by making yourself do things out of your comfort zone, so you can live a rewarding life.
I was shitposting when I said that, since "just be confident" is useless A-Z advice. The truth is confidence is something earned through experience and trial, there is no fast or easy way to become confident, you just have to push yourself out of your comfort zone and get experience with stuff in order to gain confidence with it. Whether it's riding a bike or talking to women, the only way to get better and more confident at it is to do it.
That said, lifting, learning to fight, dressing well are all things that will bolster your confidence in social situations and are great first steps to take. Good luck on your journey anon.
You know what to do you are just too lazy to do it. You can either be a loser for 10 more years until you are depressed enough ti change, or not waste your youth and change now, your choice.
''Losing'' your virginity doesn't matter. It's the process that matters. Falling in love with someone you love whom also loves you back that puts your mind in a sublime state - that is what is important. You can be hooking up with random bitches and you'd still be as sad as you are as a virgin.
Correct but there's no point jumping into relationships either just for the sake of it, all of the sudden you waste 2 years worth of time and money just for her to ghost you
So what the fuck do i do then? Live my life alone until i MAYBE get lucky and fall in love? I have never so much as LIKED a person, and i have been extremely socially active, had dozens of hobbies, went to language classes, music school, choirs, book clubs, BJJ, Karate, rock climbing, ... I have never even met a woman from any of them. What the fuck do i do? Or is it just pure RNG, and you people like to think of yourself as harder-worling because by random chance you met a girl? How do i /luckmaxx/
Geography is an extremely factor in mating success. If you're a Gigachad gifted from God himself but lives in Sahara, you're not going to be successful in dating.
extremely important*
Talk to different girls and see what they're like and if you're willing to put up with their personal shit and vice versa
Leave the "you have to do X thing by X age" and the love fairy tale bs, and realise a relationship is work in itself and if you're not actually willing you will just end up more jaded and bitter
Step one make eye contact with girl
Step two she looks away
Step 3 make eye contact again and smile if she smiles back you’re in.
Depending on where you are drivers license doesn’t matter tbh. I’m 5’7, 19 fluctuated weight between 140-160 pounds and have 8 bodies (mixed bag of mids and cuter girls)
Use your height to your advantage, you say you haven’t met any girls but have you bothered to try and talk to any?
A lot of girls have a preference for taller skinny guys like you because their shlongs are longer due to it not be obscured by fat
>I just feel so weak. I hate my body
stop saying shit like this and just go to the gym, doesnt matter if you don't know what you're doing as long as you just pick a program and show up.