Maybe stop sending out gay vibes? Or think long and hard about why you are sending out gay vibes? I only get fuck me eyes from the gym chad and that's only because I mired him without saying no homo I think
Victim blaming is not inherently bad. In fact, it's good to recognize what you have the power to change in order to prevent being victimized in the future.
People take the concept of "victim blaming" way too far now. Here are two scenarios to consider:
Scenario 1: >homeowner leaves front door unlocked by mistake when leaving for the weekend >neighbor walks in and steals a bunch of shit while homeowner is gone >police say since the door was unlocked it's the homeowner's fault >police refuse to follow up or even let the homeowner press charges against the neighbor
This is true victim blaming; saying the perpetrator doesn't deserve punishment because it's the victim's fault for "encouraging" it or "making it easy."
Scenario 2: >homeowner leaves front door unlocked by mistake when leaving for the weekend >neighbor walks in and steals a bunch of shit while homeowner is gone >police intervene and help the homeowner recover the stolen items and file charges against the neighbor >police also suggest that the homeowner should be more mindful of locking up and perhaps install some additional security measures
This is NOT victim blaming; these are legitimate suggestions for how to reduce the likelihood of becoming victimized in the future.
The problem is that these days everyone calls both scenarios victim blaming. If you so much as suggest that a victim could do more to protect themselves or deter predatory behavior you'll be called a victim blamer. This makes victims feel more helpless and less likely to make changes that will protect them. If you live in a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't go walking around at night because you're more likely to be mugged. If you go to a gym full of gays and they're hitting on you, it may behoove you to figure out what's inciting this reaction in them and take steps to reduce whatever that is. Same for women who wear overly revealing, attention-grabbing clothing and then loathe being stared at. Is it their FAULT that the gays choose to hit on them or men choose to stare at them? No. Can they TAKE STEPS TO MINIMIZE IT? Yes, they absolutely can.
Now relate your retarded logic to OP's problem and tell me how it applies. Do you think a feminine guy actually has control over how he looks? Are you that low IQ that you think clothing and body language are the only factors here?
11 months ago
Anonymous
>Are you that low IQ that you think clothing and body language are the only factors here?
No, but I do think they could be CONTRIBUTING factors that are worth seriously reflecting on.
11 months ago
Anonymous
Bullying school shooters is a contributing factor to school shootings and the victims should work on such CONTRIBUTING factors
11 months ago
Anonymous
Stop justifying school shooting. School shooters are monsters and should have been put away at birth.
11 months ago
Anonymous
Stop justifying gay rapists for the same reasons
11 months ago
Anonymous
what?
11 months ago
Anonymous
Welcome to the real world where no one is truly blameless. Glad I could help you see that.
Could be a bit of both, its not nesesarily totally in your controll to not be sex harassed. Inb4 just snap fingers so you get to 150 KG purr muscle so noone dares to
If you stick with it for long enough you eventually become the guy who sexually harasses the new guys.
Just show some persistence for once in your life.
well, what were you wearing?
just normal winter clothing
You were "asking for it" for wearing yoga pants.
ew, whore. people are trying to work out and you're distracting everyone.
Oh yeah baby you lookin hella cute *smack your ass* come on boy let us see you squat
post phisique with timestamp
Bend over, bitch.
Just train how to punch
Stop going to poor people gym
Maybe stop sending out gay vibes? Or think long and hard about why you are sending out gay vibes? I only get fuck me eyes from the gym chad and that's only because I mired him without saying no homo I think
>victim blaming
Victim blaming is not inherently bad. In fact, it's good to recognize what you have the power to change in order to prevent being victimized in the future.
It would help us sympathize if OP posted their tummy.
Third, the motion carries
>everything that happens to you is because of other people and nothing you do affects what happens to you
Fuck off, take some responsibility.
Logic that justifies school shooters
People take the concept of "victim blaming" way too far now. Here are two scenarios to consider:
Scenario 1:
>homeowner leaves front door unlocked by mistake when leaving for the weekend
>neighbor walks in and steals a bunch of shit while homeowner is gone
>police say since the door was unlocked it's the homeowner's fault
>police refuse to follow up or even let the homeowner press charges against the neighbor
This is true victim blaming; saying the perpetrator doesn't deserve punishment because it's the victim's fault for "encouraging" it or "making it easy."
Scenario 2:
>homeowner leaves front door unlocked by mistake when leaving for the weekend
>neighbor walks in and steals a bunch of shit while homeowner is gone
>police intervene and help the homeowner recover the stolen items and file charges against the neighbor
>police also suggest that the homeowner should be more mindful of locking up and perhaps install some additional security measures
This is NOT victim blaming; these are legitimate suggestions for how to reduce the likelihood of becoming victimized in the future.
The problem is that these days everyone calls both scenarios victim blaming. If you so much as suggest that a victim could do more to protect themselves or deter predatory behavior you'll be called a victim blamer. This makes victims feel more helpless and less likely to make changes that will protect them. If you live in a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't go walking around at night because you're more likely to be mugged. If you go to a gym full of gays and they're hitting on you, it may behoove you to figure out what's inciting this reaction in them and take steps to reduce whatever that is. Same for women who wear overly revealing, attention-grabbing clothing and then loathe being stared at. Is it their FAULT that the gays choose to hit on them or men choose to stare at them? No. Can they TAKE STEPS TO MINIMIZE IT? Yes, they absolutely can.
lol writing that much...gay
erase yourself zoomer
im kidding, thanks for trying to make him realize...but he wont. Just wasting your time
Good post.
Fuck women
>We should be able to walk around at night
Now relate your retarded logic to OP's problem and tell me how it applies. Do you think a feminine guy actually has control over how he looks? Are you that low IQ that you think clothing and body language are the only factors here?
>Are you that low IQ that you think clothing and body language are the only factors here?
No, but I do think they could be CONTRIBUTING factors that are worth seriously reflecting on.
Bullying school shooters is a contributing factor to school shootings and the victims should work on such CONTRIBUTING factors
Stop justifying school shooting. School shooters are monsters and should have been put away at birth.
Stop justifying gay rapists for the same reasons
what?
Welcome to the real world where no one is truly blameless. Glad I could help you see that.
stupid school kidz OWNED
Could be a bit of both, its not nesesarily totally in your controll to not be sex harassed. Inb4 just snap fingers so you get to 150 KG purr muscle so noone dares to
greentext the harassmant please, and post body, i need a good fap
harass them back, what's the problem?
Sex
If you stick with it for long enough you eventually become the guy who sexually harasses the new guys.
Just show some persistence for once in your life.
Home gym master race
Never have to leave my place
No one getting in my face
Cause home gym master race
No one curls in my squat rack
No one bugs me ‘bout my stack
No poos in shower or smell of black
No one sniffing at my crack
Take it as a compliment and use it to boost your confidence.