How will women see me as a potential partner if I've never had a relationship before? It's like asking 5 years of work experience for an entry level job.
How will women see me as a potential partner if I've never had a relationship before?
How will women see me as a potential partner if I've never had a relationship before? It's like asking 5 years of work experience for an entry level job.
Boy, do i have a tip for you. Its called lying. Just make something up.
I don't want a hook up. Lies will eventually come out and she won't trust me enough for marriage.
Lol, you’ll never get there if you’re like in your mid or late 20s and never been had a relationship and honest about it. She’ll think there’s something wrong with you, it’s a huge red flag for girls. Women unironically hate late virgins cause it means other women never found you attractive before and she needs that social proof confirmation you’re desirable. Even virgin women want a man who’ve fucked dozens of women, never give a clear answer on this or reveal u’re a virgin unless u want her to be repelled.
I'm 31. I've been with 1 girl from 22-31 and no one else. Lived together for 5 years and recently broke up. I can't think of a bigger red flag than staying with a woman for so long and not having kids yet. My dumb ex turned out too infertile to carry kids due to pcos but how do I let women know that I'm not the problem?
I know a girl who has been with a guy for 10 years but don't have kids
why are women like this
Beta bucks
don't really understand your reply. she is quite hot, shorter than him and she is already 30
I suspect some kind of infertility problem but I don't know
They're keeping them around until they can secure more successfully / attractive male
I don't think that's the case here because she just got married a few months ago and is quite shy (doesn't talk too much)
her ass is unreal though
you're retarded
she's literally just mentally and emotionally immature, her mind is still in the stage where she coasts off the positive feedback she receives due to her physical attractiveness and she hasn't properly hit the wall yet so she thinks she has time. As soon as her friends all start having kids and getting married then she'll start hinting at her boyfriend to propose and then she'll 'accidently' forget to take the pill
you might be right lol. in our friend group she is probably one of the last that doesn't have kids. everyone else is already married with kids. I recently overheard some conversation about another woman asking her when is she having kids but she cut the conversation short and started talking about something else
hmmmmm
i'm with a guy for like 12 years and still no kid
>why are women like this
because they can ?
>but how do I let women know that I'm not the problem?
You don't you lie.
joey?
Matt? Wtf
Just get a practice girlfriend, lie to her to hook up and dump her. Then you can look for your qt tradwaifu and be honest about your experiences
Just tell her you’ve been in a long term relationship since highschool that recently ended and if she asks more just say you dont wanna talk about it. Done, now you have an excuse for sucking at it.
Btw women lie about their bodycount all the time, don’t even bring up the discussion cause it’s just gonna get you mad. If she asks about yours just say “I’m only focused on you right now.” and dodge it so she can make up whatever in her head.
>just put your head in the sand
So what do we do about this?
Kill all simps that enable it lol
Also dont believe that all women are like that, although most of the ones you seek out and enable will be which is why we have this problem in the first place
The good news is that it's not done organically and that people have addresses to be reached at.
90% is more like 10%. All the blackpill garbage just sketches out the worst woman imaginable and claims all women are like that.
to what end?
I always Wonder if they are incel retards or /misc/tard or both.
>90% of college women have fucked over 100 guys
Imagine believing this to be even remotely true.
Yeah, its a pretty generous underestimate.
If you want an actual serious relationship you'll need someone without the need to lie about bodycount, but most men will never get that regardless because women have nothing really stopping them from just indulging themselves until they want to get something else out of life.
>you'll need someone without the need to lie about bodycount,
Yeah because women are known to reveal how many they've been with kek
>keep the conversations between us
>on the company email server
how are people this dumb?
>SwoleShack-Fitness
Lie
>kessinger
JUDEN
>chris watts
oh shit just realized what this is...dark stuff mate
Didn't everyone notice it right away? Anyway, Chris met her on June 5th and by August he had her googling how to do anal and browsing wedding dresses.
I'd just be honest about it, if anything you'll probably just end up filtering loose woman.
Women love children and barrels. Do the math.
I made sure to tell all the little girls I see to avoid guys who've had even one (1) previous sexual relationship. I tell them that if they failed before, they'll fail again, either they still love the first girl or they are unable to love at all.
You are not gonna make it, only roasties and single moms will be left for you.
i was a virgin when i started dating my current gf (at 26), and she was initially taken aback but we've been in a healthy relationship for a few years now. don't lie to her, it'll come out eventually. honestly, if you're concerned about it enough to post on an autism board on whether women will reject you for it, you're probably autistic enough that they won't be attracted to you in the first place. i promise you a woman worth being with won't care if she's your first
Are you fucking dumb? Holy shit retard
>"i promise you a woman worth being with won't care if she's your first"
A worthy woman will care, she will want to be your first you worthless piece of shit how fucking dumb do you have to be to give your only virginity that you have for your whole life to some skank who sexually bonded with another man beforehand! You don't see yourself worthy either and she'll know it. She knows her value is low and you chose her at peak, so even your peak is low.
This "person" has never and will never see a vagina.
YWNBAM
Wishful thinking low worth.
Virginity is a virtue.
shouldn't you kids be getting back to class? it's the middle of the day and summer is over
You think you are an adult for acting immature? That's your cope? All sexual relationships you've had made you a worst person, a person of less worth, you may only think about how you've gotten with the person, but you no longer being with that person implies it was a failure, therefore you imply that you've failed. Furthermore if you don't even recognize that as a failure you will fail again, and again you will stubbornly refuse to recognize it as a failure.
Sex is the act of making children, children need love to survive, therefore sex is also the act of making love, it is also the act that defines a marriage and seals it, therefore if you have sex with someone, it's as if you are now married, you just never had a ceremony. You are just acting recklessly like a child that never got taught rules and how things function.
But whatever floats your cope cattle, you are experiencing social engineering to help depopulate the first world for a docile population replacement.
oh no, some schizos on SwoleShack think i'm wrong, whatever shall i do
op, the attitude you're seeing from these guys is exactly what you need to avoid if you hope to get laid, women can smell desperation like this from miles away
You want to get laid with random sluts and then you say that I'm the desperate one, I can smell the projection from miles away. Absolutely pathetic. Next time you are hurt, think of me, think that I have no power over you, therefore the hurt you experience is entirely due to you and your stubbornness.
sounds good, thanks lads
anyway, good luck op. you'll do fine if you stop worrying so much about it
The whole "sexual liberation" nonsense has done more harm then good this is plain to see to anyone who has been paying attention, families are being torn apart simply because either parent is too absorbed in their pleasure.
Anyone who has more than 1 sexual partner in their life will never feel love as it's meant to be. The woman I lost my virginity to could ignore me like I don't exist. She would never feel love past the first few months of the relationship. That bitch was so bitter all the time after that. Only date virgin women, dump her if she puts out within 3 dates.
From what i can tell teenagers that still go to class are the most concerned when it comes to "getting laid".
Depends on the emotional bond.
If they genuinely like you they will see it as sweet.
dont tell them and just pretend that you have been with a few people, dont give details
Man I wish I worked for Anadarko. They pay well and have lots of benefits and vacation scales with your age not employment duration.
As for bitches, just fucking lie lmao
>24 or under
It's fine and any woman who harshly judges you for this is probably not worth your time.
>25 and up
Just say you find talking about your exes with your current partner to be in bad taste. If you seem intimidated during sex just say you feel nervous being with a woman as beautiful as her (yes srsly this cheesy shit works).
t. experienced woman who married a virgin
How did you ascertain your husband was really a virgin when you married him? I also want a virgin husband but it looks like men would rather advise each other to make up fake relationships than tell the truth. It makes it harder to find a real virgin man in this late 20s/early 30s.
probably because no guy would ever pretend to be a virgin
also ywnbaw
My husband and I met when we were both 23. He was irreligious, young, and honest just clueless about what PUAs have to say about women, so he had no reason to lie about that sort of thing.
Finding a virginal man in his late 20s/early 30s isn't an issue, I've met plenty like that who were willing to admit to being such. The issue is finding one that isn't unhinged. When a man makes it to that age without any sort of sexual experience, it's a pretty big indicator of mental illness and just a lack of ability to adjust socially. There's a reason why these men advice each other to lie.
My advice would be to go after younger men, if you're fixated on being with a virgin.
>When a man makes it to that age without any sort of sexual experience, it's a pretty big indicator of mental illness and just a lack of ability to adjust socially.
Or perhaps they value intelligence and hard work more than cheap pussy?
See, in your world, all there is is sex and relationships. For men, we have to think about solving life's problems, innovating, and carving out a space for ourselves. Women just have to buy makeup and look pretty.
Men don't have as much free time as you do. A virgin man in his late 20s could be very more well-adjusted than the man whores you are attracted to, simply due to the fact that he's not wasted his life chasing pussy.
>Or perhaps they value intelligence and hard work more than cheap pussy?
sure thing buddy, thats the reason you didnt get laid in high school
exactly the opposite.
I spent my 15-24 year old life as a man-whore and now regret not indulging on math instead.
You will never be able to understand this perspective though.
I had plenty of oppurtunities to "get laid" however i don't see why i should attempt to sleep with someone i have no interest to have children with.
>I didnt want to have sex anyways haha
>spends all day seething on SwoleShack about women not giving him pussy
You are missing the point.
Thanks for proving my point about the mental illness.
Explain how I've proven your point.
I do not think that is exclusive to virgins, people have started getting more "Ill" for quite some time now.
You're right, it's not. But there's a big difference between having a history of depression/anxiety and having the type of ugly issues that late virgins tend to have. The last time I spoke with a virginal man in his late 20s he tried to manipulate me into sleeping with him by threatening to kill himself. There's a line that they always tend to cross.
And you believe a man that just wants to "get laid" wouldn't do that? I believe the person you are reffering to isn't any different from a regular manwhore despite being a virgin.
there are only three things ALL women like in a guy, without exception:
height, money and sexual experience
you can find a woman that doesnt mind you being a virgin if she really likes you, but she would prefer it if you fucked a few sluts before
>go on first date with girl
>hook up
>later she asks me about my previous relationships
>instantly goes cold when I tell her my last relationship was my only one
>texts me the next day that she isn’t interested because I’m too inexperienced
Am I just supposed to lie about this shit?
no you are supposed to have fucked at least 1 girl a year from age 16
I don't know how it happened
>not ugly
>had friends
>have lived a pretty normal life, went to school, worked a job, etc
>still never had a gf
you didnt try
Everyone always says this
>you have to actually try bro
>you aren't trying hard enough
but I feel like your average normal man didn't really "try" to get a gf. Girls just naturally appeared in his life, and they gravitated towards one another, no "trying" necessary.
You have to "try" to reach a 300lb bench press. You have to "try" to make $100k a year. You shouldn't have to "try" to get a girlfriend
>You shouldn't have to "try" to get a girlfriend
and this attitude is the reason why there are so many incels on this website
for some reason you just deserve some cute girl to knock on your door and ask to suck your cock
>You shouldn't have to "try" to get a girlfriend
do people unironically believe this?
incels do
the only people that dont have to try are women, grow up pussy. you should have figured this out by age 18
inb4 >famous millionaire Chad Thundercock doesnt have to try its not faaaaaaair booohooo
I literally didn't have to try tho
Some women just liked me and pursued me, I didn't have to do shit, other than to behave like a decent human and work out to look at least a little fit
we live in unprecedented times.
western women are completely lost and retarded. they want their cake and eat it too. they want you to be a bad person who keeps them interested while simultaneously a normal person who keeps them secure.
im assuming you are american? gtfo of the country like i plan to.
So men and women are like opposites?
>women desperately try to hide the fact they've slept with lots of guys
>men desperately try to hide the fact they haven't slept with lots of women
Depends
I was 17 when I got my first gf and she was excited to be my first kept rambling about how it makes her feel special and that it's such a big thing and on and on she went. Some women are extremely jelaous and can't even beare the thought of their men having an interest in some other woman some years ago.
And some women want their men to be experienced, be that in sex or in having a relationship in general.
Women are not a hivemind and different women like different things, find a woman with similar interests and values. It's not worth to waste your time on a hoe just because you wanna dip your wick or because you're insecure and afraid of being single. Quiality of quantity
Just get a fat gf. Then when you are taken suddenly the ones who wouldn't give you the time of day before are acting like they heard ur dick tastes like chocolate and ejaculates money.
I have no idea why they're like this
>entertaining the anecdotes of a butthurt troon larper
lmao SwoleShack really is shit
meds now