Anyone else noticed how fat fucks love to slander you after getting fit and skinny get jealous but not really attack you?
Through my experience of being envied, fat fucks were the ones who got offended for being fat. Did that happen to anybody else?
No. You are a unique case.
to be expected considering you probably are jobless and didn't go out for five years
Just showing clear envy, sometimes mimicking you behind your back shit like that, I find that hilarious because of how big of slobs they actually are.
Also have a friend who sometimes addresses my physique and shows envy , he drinks lots of alcohol and basically an addict when it comes to smoking. Best part was when he told me that I'm not a real man because I don't drink alcohol which was pure entertainment to me. Isn't it funny how some people see working out as an obligation?
You should work on your ego. You come off as really self obsessed
Not sure what you mean but if you think it's my fault for taking care of myself then you've got some thinking there buddy. The problem is people not allowing you to be yourself and (cringe alert) bodyshaming me for looking vastly superior to them, I do not show off or anything like that and I act like any other human being, fat fucks are the one's to start the shit because they can't control their fragile feelings.
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You are a unique case. Do you go outside at all? Why not go for some forest walks if you don't live in a total dystopia or just a neet.
>Not sure what you mean
I can tell
>to be expected considering you probably are jobless and didn't go out for five years
4 years actually. Got damn man why you do me like that
>Just showing clear envy, sometimes mimicking you behind your back shit like that, I find that hilarious because of how big of slobs they actually are.
>Also have a friend who sometimes addresses my physique and shows envy , he drinks lots of alcohol and basically an addict when it comes to smoking. Best part was when he told me that I'm not a real man because I don't drink alcohol which was pure entertainment to me.
Are there any times in your life where you have shown envy towards others or felt threatened by them for whatever reason? I think most people have behaved like that at some point in their life and it takes some self awareness, introspection and maturity to become aware of it, admit it and then decide to not behave like that. I know that in my teens i have acted like that a couple of times even though i dont like to admit that. But i became aware of that kind of stuff trough surprisingly?) reading about it on SwoleShack. I decided to be better and instead be encouraging and bring people up instead of bringing people down. But realizing that i have acted in shitty ways like that makes be more able to forgive other people for also doing it. If you become more comfortable with your own shadow you also become more forgiving of others shadow. But aside from that i guess the question is how to respond to these situations and learn to diffuse them/bite back?
I used to be a normie, then i just got unemployed and started liking the NEET life. After covid lock downs and i got a homegym i don't go to the gym anymore i took the hermitude to far. Yeah i enjoy cardio in forest 1-3 times per week depending on weather and current training set up.
>But realizing that i have acted in shitty ways like that makes be more able to forgive other people for also doing it
That's one thing, the problem is that those people are not my friends and are far from from being friendly at all, their goal is to use you up. I try to mind my own business and be oblivious towards the situation but otherwise it's just annoying, not caring that much though.
>NEET life
do you live off of parents, have a gf that works for you and you're the house husband or an immigrant living in germany or sweden living rentfree?
I don't even drink when I'm in bars with friends, I find that fucking disgusting and the retard feel is boring as hell only to have it followed by that shit feeling of ruining gains. The only reason I'd buy something like whiskey is because I can drink it through the entire meeting and "fit in".
Fucking sucks considering vast majority of people here can only have fun by drinking alcohol. Because I only have a homegym and ever since I started working out I hated how people would look at me and laugh instead of helping, I don't necessarily want to go to gym's. Fucking sucks because I'd really like to have a friend who's into lifting and not as a phase for few weeks.
>their goal is to use you up. I try to mind my own business and be oblivious towards the situation but otherwise it's just annoying, not caring that much though.
What do you mean "use you up?" But what they are doing is they are just being dickheads and even though you don't care, be a dick back.
Unemployment money
>What do you mean "use you up?"
Unpleasant people, both ugly and mean. Will only be a "friend" if they need something.
Are you young?
Is your friend group kind of shit but you known them for a long time so you still hang with them?
Have you changed recently (like getting fit) but still hang with the old people that you can't quite do the new things you like to do with? fitness etc?
Have you not yet developed new friendships with people that have the same hobbies as you? (fitness etc)
Are you chill and easy going in general?
Treat other people like decent human beings and avoid being a dickhead even though you could out of common decency?
Do you feel like you should say no more in general and guard your time and attention more?
this scares the anon away 🙁
just go startled with how accurate that is 🙁
While I am still young I will be going to college soon, my life did change ever since I started consistently lifting with decent diet (almost two years now and looking really good). The friend's are pretty much the same they just drink alcohol but we do our own thing, we don't judge. Just sucks the only fun activity in their book is drinking alcohol and yeah I do wish I had a gymbro or someone like that.
>Are you chill and easy going in general?
that is up to the people I'm friends with to decide, I guess it depends on the situation
>Do you feel like you should say no more in general and guard your time and attention more?
Lately, yeah. The more I realize how shit people are and how there's no hope for anyone the less I feel like speaking with anybody. Glad I have a gf and friend's are near unnecessary but it's good to know some people you know.
>just go startled with how accurate that is 🙁
I am getting to good at internet psychoanalyzing. I can pierce trough the soul of an anon by just a few posts and lines. I should start getting paid for this. joking but not really. There are so many anons that has gone trough the same thing and similar circumstances.
>Lately, yeah. The more I realize how shit people are and how there's no hope for anyone the less I feel like speaking with anybody.
Don't get cynical, it won't do you no good. There is a saying that "Wisdom comes after cynicism"
It's tremendously sad when a person has to hide behind alcohol to be "manly", or worse to even have fun. Protip for other anons: if you can't have fun without drinking then you should probably work on that before drinking another drop of alcohol.
>slander you
You mean when they refer to your hours of weekly cardio, abstinence from alcohol, and skipped meals "genetics"?
I love flexing on my fat friends. I’ll send screenshots of my runs to them and tell them how amazing my 10k felt that day or tell them about how fun my lift was etc. they’re always like “hey that’s pretty impressive, couldn’t be me though!” And I get a feeling of satisfaction from just simply being more capable than them.
Nah, they love me because it means they don't need to lift/work as physically hard until im outta there.